We are often contacted by bereaved parents, family members, friends or colleagues who tell us how much reading the thoughts and feelings of others has helped them. We are incredibly grateful that you are considering sharing your personal story with us to help others.

We know that for many bereaved parents talking about their babies, saying their names, and sharing photos can be very important, but please only share what feels right for you at this point about what happened to you and your baby or babies.  

Whilst we always aim to keep your story in your words, occasionally we may need to make small changes. If we do, these will be made with care and respect. 

We understand that this may be the first time you have shared your story in this way, and that writing things down may feel triggering. If you want to reach out for support, we are here for you if you need to talk or get support in another way. 

If you would like to share photos or other memories of your baby, such as a poem you have written, we would love to receive these. 

You can upload up to 5 files (up to 60 MB) within our story form. If you have larger photos or media you would like to share, please send these to RealStories@sands.org.uk and label your photos or media files with your and/or your baby or babies' names. 

If you would like to know more about how we will use your story and how it will make a difference please click here  

Finally, if this form doesn’t feel like the right way for you to share your story, please get in touch with us at RealStories@sands.org.uk. We’d be happy to explore other ways to support you to share your story safely and comfortably.