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Raksha Bandhan, also known as Rakhi, is a beautiful and heartfelt annual Hindu festival that celebrates the bond between brothers and sisters. It is traditionally observed in August and holds deep cultural and emotional significance - this year it falls on Friday 28 August. Raksha translates to protection and Bandhan translates to bond. During the ceremony, a sister ties a sacred thread known as a Rakhi on her brother's right wrist as a symbol of mutual love and protection. 

Raksha Bandhan starts from the first year of a siblings' birth and continues throughout their shared lives. From formative years to teens, siblings may live together and therefore may be in the same home to perform the ceremony. When a sibling moves away from the family home, whether to another city or country, the tradition of coming together continues, be in in person, through a call, or the posting of Rakhis to honour the sibling bond across any distance. 

At Sands, we understand that Raksha Bandhan can be particularly difficult for siblings who are unable to celebrate the festival in its traditional form, and for bereaved parents, the occasion can intensify grief as they reflect on the sibling bond their children should have shared and the love that continues beyond loss. 

We want you to know that we are here for you. While we know some families may have developed their own ways of celebrating Raksha Bandhan following the loss of a baby, we hope to create a space that may help to mark the occasion in a meaningful way, no matter how long ago you lost your baby or your sibling. 

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Remember a much-loved baby or sibling this Raksha Bandhan. Donate today to receive your remembrance Rakhi.

Every donation helps Sands support bereaved families and save babies' lives.

Thank you so much ♥ 
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Honour a sibling and share your dedication today

Siblings share a bond that begins before words, before memories - one that stays forever.

This Raksha Bandhan, we want to honour all the brothers and sisters not here with us today. Leave a dedication and share a picture of your special Rakhi in honour of your sibling ♥
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Support for siblings

Our resources provide parents and teachers with helpful advice and guidance on how to begin conversations with siblings of all ages about pregnancy or baby loss. 

You will also find some suggested activities for children to remember their baby brother or sister and express how they feel. 
Support for siblings
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Support for South Asian communities

We recognise the need for greater engagement and tailored support for South Asian parents, family members and communities affected by pregnancy or baby loss. That is why we have created these dedicated safe and confidential spaces for anybody who has been impacted by baby loss. 
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Our special Rakhis

Read about Knit your Socks Off, a volunteer group who have kindly knitted the Rakhis for our Forever Tied in Love campaign. 
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Q&A

If you have a question about our Forever Tied in Love campaign, your Rakhi or anything else, check out our Q&A section to find out more. 
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Get involved

From volunteering and fundraising to campaigning for better bereavement care, there are many ways you can help support bereaved families and honour babies gone too soon.

Find out all the different ways you can organise your own event to raise funds and support Sands and offers tips and tools to help you.
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