It's that time of year again when we welcome people to come together at our annual Lights of Love services to remember precious babies gone too soon. 

Our Lights of Love services, and other seasonal events, take place across the country every year with readings, music, and candle lighting. 

Our Lights of Love services, and other seasonal events, are FREE of charge, and for ANYONE to join.

We know that many people find this a challenging time of year. Lights of Love is designed to provide peace and comfort to parents, siblings and anyone else affected by pregnancy or baby loss, helping them to prepare emotionally for other seasonal celebrations in which they are taking part. 

Events are designed and organised by Sands volunteers and supporters. Please find your local Lights of Love service below.

If you are interested in finding out how you can put on a Lights of Love event near you, you can find out more here.

Local Lights of Love services:

Bangor (Wales) - Saturday, 9 November

Gwynedd Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: Bangor Cathedral, Cathedral Close, Bangor LL57 1RL

Time: 14:00

Oxford - Sunday, 17 November

Oxfordshire Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: St Anthony of Padua’s Church, 115 Headley Way, Oxford OX3 7SS

Time: 14:00

Strabane - Thursday, 28 November

Northern Ireland Network Committee Lights of Love service.

Location: Church of the Immaculate Conception, 44 Barrack Street, Strabane BT82 8HD

Time: 18:30

Bath - Saturday, 30 November

Bath Sands Winter Baby Remembrance Service

Location: All Saints Church, Weston, Bath BA1 4BT

Time: 13:00

Derry - Sunday, 1 December

Derry Sands Lights of Love Service 

Location: St Brigid's Church, Village Ln, Londonderry BT48 8NL

Time: 14:30

Omagh - Sunday, 1 December

Lights of Love Service

Location: St Patrick's Chruch, 96 Church Rd, Omagh BT79 0SA

Time: 19:30

Belfast - Wednesday, 4 December

Belfast Sands Lights of Love service.

Location: St Jude's Parish Church, 340 Ormeau Rd, Ormeau, Belfast BT7 2GE

Time: 19:30

Huddersfield - Friday, 6 December

Huddersfield and Halifax Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: St Thomas' Church, Manchester Road, Huddersfield HD1 3HU

Time: 19:00

Cardiff - Friday, 6 December

Cardiff and Newport Sands Christmas Tree Service

Location: Church of Saint John the Evangelist, St John's Cres, Cardiff CF5 1NX

Time: 19:00

London - Sunday, 8 December

North and East London Sands Lights of Love service.

Location: CUFOS, The Avenue, London N10 2QE

Time: 15:30

Bedford - Sunday, 8 December

Bedfordshire Sands Lights of Love service.

Location: St Andrews Church, Kimbolton Rd, Bedford MK40 2PF

Time: 16:00

Clacton-on-Sea - Sunday, 8 December

Clacton-on-Sea Sands Lights of Love service.

Location: Pier Avenue Baptist Church, 117-119 Pier Avenue, Clacton-on-Sea CO15 1NJ

Time: 15:00

"Our service will be held at Pier Avenue Baptist Church Pier Avenue, Clacton on Sea and is open to all, regardless of religious background. 

"Join us for our beautiful service which includes readings, candle lighting, carols and the wonderful choir Harwich Sing Tendring Voices to provide a sense of peace and comfort for those who want to remember precious babies and loved ones gone too soon."

Newtownabbey - Sunday, 8 December

Carnmoney Lights of Love Service

Location: Carnmoney Parish Church, 75 Church Rd, Glengormley, Newtownabbey BT36 6DJ

Time: 18:30

Tunbridge Wells - Sunday, 8 December

Tunbridge Wells Sands Christmas service of remembrance

Location: Christ Church, High St, Royal Tunbridge Wells, Tunbridge Wells TN1 1UT

Time: 16:00

Essex - Sunday, 8 December

Essex Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: All Saints Church, Church Chase, Rettendon CM3 8DR

Time: 19:00

Bangor (Northern Ireland) - Monday, 9 December

North Down Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: West Church, Bangor, 91 Crawfordsburn Rd, Bangor BT19 1BG

Time: 19:00

Portadown - Friday, 13 December

Portadown Sands Lights of Love Service

Location: St Mark’s Church of Ireland, Fergus Hall, Church St, Portadown BT62 3LG

Time: 19:30

Northampton - Sunday, 15 December

Northamptonshire Sands Christmas Tree Service

Location: Northampton Girls High School, Hardingstone, Northampton NN4 6UU

Time: 14:00

Camberley - Sunday, 15 December

Farnborough Sands Snowflake Memorial Service 

Location: Saint Francis Church, 121 Upper Chobham Rd, Frimley, Camberley GU15 1EE

Time: 13:00

Hull - Sunday, 22 December

Hull and East Yorkshire Sands Christmas Memorial Service

Location: Jubilee Church, King Edward Street, Hull HU1 3SQ

Time: 13:00

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